The best thing about the book is its relevance to real issues in the lives of our fifth graders, including social pressure, self-respect, and relationships with family and friends. It gives them Jewish responses to their real-life choices. In the words of one of my master teachers, Susan Langer, "it is extremely well written, in a language that the students can make their own. It's non-preachy and sensible. The text is a catalyst for discussion about students' own personal battles with honesty, parents, and the world."

With Ms Langer's guidance, the fourth graders planned a "mensch fair" and invited the entire school and their families. First, the students read aloud their own interpretation of a mitzvah or middah they had studied. Then guests browsed the "mensch booths," which included the "Generosity Rules" booth, where each guest received a free tee-shirt, compliments of the students' parents. At the "Sh'lom Bayit" booth, students took a survey of which values best create a peaceful home. Of course, each student was polite, smiled, and offered food and hospitality. Just like the menschen they are fast becoming.

Nancy Shechter is Director of Education at Temple Beth Shalom, Manalapan, New Jersey.